Ex..

I wanted to talk about ex(s), not about mine tho, its a general topic. 

I was just wondering how some people can be good friends again with their ex(s)?
Was it bcs they already moved on from the past and forgive them?
Or was it bcs they tried to use that term to get close again with their ex(s)?
They are friends with memories yes indeed.
Somebody that we used to know,
If you know what i mean.

Some says that we need to forget about the upsetting pastand move on. 
As in kick them out from ur life, block all the contacts with them, delete the pictures, messages and all other stuff.
But some says we need to learn to forgive them and try to be friends with them.
(i dont even know hows that even possible)

Well in my whole life,
Im not interested on being friends with someone who already crushed my heart,
Ruined me,
Or whatsoever bad things they did that made mebroken apart.
Yes i might forgive them eventually,
But i dont think i'll be able to talk to them again like we used to. 
Its going to be hella awkward for fcuk sake.
Well i tried before though,
Its only last for couple of weeks then no more.

Some people whom im not going to mention their names,
She can even let her friends date her ex. Like how strange is that.
You might not find it weird but i do.
I will feel very uncomfortable watching my friends dating my ex,
Seeing them do thing like he used to do to me. 
"what the actual fuck?" 
 And what kind of friends date their friends' ex?

Some others, they still cant move on. 
Their ex probably gave a big impact in her/his life.
I feel sorry for this two types of people,
The one that cant move on and keep on being depressed.
Theyre subconsciously hurting themselves arent they.
 Its sad..

I wish people would just be honest with their feelings instead of being so ego..

Its not only gonna hurt them but its going to hurt the person they love..